“Hey James, I’m hosting a charity dinner tomorrow night to help educate and mentor children in El Salvador. If you would like to come over and bring a fun dish to share that would be awesome. Also, if you want to make a small donation to help, any amount will make a difference!”
"Hey friends and family, I'm hosting a charity dinner on _____ and would love to have as many people as possible come over to enjoy a great night of food and games. We are asking for you to bring a side and if you want to join and make a small donation, every dollar raised goes towards mentoring and educating students in El Salvador."